Dangerously overlooked, the most cluttered space in our life is our mind. With information overload and the unwise use of social media, each and everyone of us are combating the side effects of mental and emotional clutter. A spike in anxiety, stress and feeling of overwhelming pressure is an everyday occurrence as a result of the constant grind of living at a fast pace and keeping up with trends.
German psychologist and thinker Erich Fromme had stated that there are two modes of living in this world – The mode of ‘having’ and the mode of ‘being’. One’s peace of mind depends on which mode one exists in. In the mode of having, one views the world as a place to acquire more – things, knowledge, success, love – yes, it is commodification of everything, even feelings. So the self-worth of the individual gets tied up in his success to acquire and own more.
In the mode of being, the individual focuses on the present, while being a part of a society, culture and family. This encourages more dutiful behaviour towards the group, lesser dependence of materialism and overall attention on experiences, relations and feelings.
Clearly, we all understand which is a better mode of existence. So how do we make the switch?
Meditation: The Saints’ and Mystics’ answers to worldy problems, meditation is timeless practice that brings peace, balance and everlasting joy.
Buddha, the enlightened one has said – ‘The end of desire is the end of sorrow.’
Meditation promotes a state of desirelessness by calming the mind and focusing on the present. A single moment when the mind is free of thoughts and desires is more restful and joyous than days of sleep.
Self-Journaling: Editing thoughts is an excellent way to declutter. Writing down the negative thoughts can purge them from the mind. Similarly, writing down the desires one has can help edit them to get over the urge. Recording unethical dealings throughout the day is also an excellent tool for introspection and shifting towards mindfulness.
Spiritual Decluttering: Religions of the East like Taoism, Hinduism, Shintoism, Buddhism focus of developing discipline, discharging worldy duties and lead towards a life of renunciation as one grows older. This expectation built a life free of excessive need for possession and stress. The Hindu Vedas or scriptures describe the four clearly defined phases or ‘Ashrama’ of a human life – ‘Brahmacharya’ or a bachelor student phase where a child becomes a student and learned through education and experience.
‘Grahastha’ or marital phase of responsibilities, marriage, having children, raising and running a household.
‘Vanyaprastha’ or retirement phase to hand responsibilities over to the next generation and disengage from worldly affairs.
‘Sannyasa’ or renunciation phase where worldly desires, prejudices and attachments are left behind and a spiritual life for liberation is led.